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31 Romantic Things to do for your Wife

by Oluseye Igbafe

Do you want your wife to feel special or loved? Then you cannot afford to express your love for her only at Valentine, her birthday and Christmas. Love should be expressed at all times, not just by words but also by the things we do. 
Keeping the spark in your marriage and being a great husband is not a difficult task, as a matter of fact, it’s very simple.
Here are 31 Romantic Things you can do to keep her falling in love with you again and again…. 1.      Kiss her often. 
2.       Hold her hand in Public, hold her waist in public too if she doesn’t mind 
3.       Send a text message during the day – something like any of the following:
     Just thinking of U.     Can’t wait 2 C U tonight.     Love you girl!    Thinking about you… totally distracting me.      Miss you.  Like right now.     Can’t wait to give you a big kiss when I get home.    How is your day going? Doing okay? 4.        Compliment her before she leaves the house often 5.       Take her Picture with your pho…

10 Things All Men Need to tell their Wives Often

by Oluseye Igbafe

Women are emotional creatures. They respond to people and situations mostly based on their emotions. They love to be loved and cherished and even better, they love or rather need to be reassured that they are loved and cherished.
If men would put in as much effort wooing their wives as they did during the chase, they would get amazing responses from their wives.
Here are 10 short endearing statements that every woman loves to hear and is guaranteed to sweeten her heart always.
1.I Love You: Don't just reserve this for the end of calls, after a great meal or during sex. Say it for no reason, when she's not expecting it. Text her to let her know you love her. Even better, call her just to tell her that. 
2. You are beautiful. Don't refrain from telling her because you believe she already knows. Reassure her! Hearing it from you makes all the difference! Tell her often even in public places. Pay her compliments often. Do not let others meet that emotional need fo…

15 Ways to Love Yourself.

by Oluseye Igbafe

1.       Make a List: There is definitely a lot to love about you so list 5 of your most sterling qualities, keep the list close by and review it occasionally.

2.       Stop Negative Thoughts. What do you think of yourself? When you look in the mirror, what do you see? Begin to see the best in you. Think great thoughts only. Reject negative thoughts about yourself and replace them with good ones.

3.       Change what you can, embrace what you can’t. There are things you don’t like about yourself that you can change... change them. Embrace the things you cannot change.

4.       Exit Toxic Relationships: Get as far away as possible from anyone who makes you feel small, powerless or insignificant. Let them go, they do not belong in your life.

5.       Don’t Compare Yourself with others: The reason God gave us all different DNA and fingerprint is to remind us of our uniqueness. You are not the same with anyone and no one is the same as you. Enjoy your uniqueness.

6.       Forg…

Learn to Love Yourself First

by Oluseye Igbafe

“Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.”
A lot of people equate self-love with selfishness or being self-centered but self-love is an essential element in loving others. Before you can truly love someone else, you need to love yourself first. That is why the Bible says, “love thy neighbor as thyself”.  God expects you to love yourself and extend such love to others.

So do you love yourself? Those feelings of intense value, appreciation and passion that we have for those we love, do you feel that about yourself? Ironically, if you ask a lot of people if they love themselves, their answer will be an automatic yes! Yet, most of us don't have self-love. I believe love is a deep appreciation so self-love is having a deep appreciation for oneself. 
"Self-love is accepting yourself, the whole package, with love. Unconditionally!"
Loving yourself is accepting you unconditionally, appreciating yourself, valuing yourself, respecting yourself. It’s a re…